The Art of Navigating Client vs. Team Conflict
No matter how strong your processes or positioning, sooner or later, you’ll face conflict between a client and your team. As a Client Service Leader, all eyes are on you to manage it effectively.
It’s high-stakes, so let’s ensure you’re equipped with a solid plan before tensions arise.
Step 1: Know What Happened
You can’t address conflict without facts. Centralized communication threads and recorded calls are essential—not optional.
When issues arise, you need the ability to:
- Review logs
- Listen to calls
- Check health scores
- Analyze communication patterns
Here’s how to ensure your team is always prepared:
Client Communication Non-Negotiables
- No DMs: All conversations happen in public shared channels.
- Record all calls: If clients insist on using their platform, ensure your recording bot is present.
- Sync emails: Use a shared CRM (e.g., HubSpot).
- No personal texts: Use company numbers synced to a shared inbox (e.g., Front App).
Make these procedures part of onboarding, and conduct regular checks to ensure compliance.
Step 2: When the Client Is Out of Line
No bullying. No exceptions.
Your clients are partners—not dictators. If a client is disrespectful, fire them on the spot.
This sends a powerful message to your team: you value them and won’t tolerate toxicity in their workplace.
Why it’s worth it:
- The revenue impact of a burned-out team member is far greater than losing one bad client.
- Burnout leads to churn, cultural instability, and higher recruitment costs.
Protecting your team’s morale is a long-term win—for them and for your business.
Step 3: When Your Team Member Is Out of Line
When your research points to your team’s mistake, handle it strategically.
Start by diagnosing the issue:
- Was it an expectation gap?
- Did personality differences play a role?
If it’s a coaching opportunity, empower your team member to own their mistakes and repair the relationship. Avoid swooping in unless absolutely necessary—this helps maintain their credibility with the client.
But if there’s a deeper issue:
If a team member is unwilling or unable to meet client service standards, they may not be the right fit. Retaining someone who erodes client relationships or team morale has long-term consequences.
Your client service culture will only rise to the lowest level of tolerated behavior.
Delivery System: Regular CS Call Reviews
Hold monthly team reviews to listen to submitted call clips. Ask your team: “How would you have handled this?”
This encourages organic coaching and showcases different engagement styles. Regular reviews also normalize feedback, reducing defensiveness when real-time coaching is needed.
Navigating client-team conflict is one of the hardest—and most rewarding—parts of leadership. Equip yourself and your team with the tools, processes, and culture to handle it with confidence.